Ever had feelings you didn't want because you knew they weren't right?

I don't really know exactly why and I don't think I'm the only one with this issue. Maybe it's because women always seen there own feminity as weak so they took a step up to men and copied more masculine traits to show strength. So when some men climb down the latter in societies eyes. Both men and women. It's just a bit more degrading to a bit more people who would have seen a women acting masculine as alright. In a sense for guys who don't consider themselves gay. I know it might be offensive to a lot of people but feminine nature has always been seen as weak and it was seen even weaker when women themselves thought that the only way they can earn equal respect in there eyes is if to exhibit more exaggerated masculine traits. So it just looks like a guy is going from strong to weak in the eyes of many. What has always been praised in men and women. Those men choose to take away. I honestly want to change my mindset on this. I don't think it's really healthy because I really have no ill feeling deep down in my own heart towards men like this in any logical way. My body just reacts a bit to stuff like this. I control a great deal of my unnecessary feelings so it doesn't exactly show at all.

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Fernie · F

Bottom line...men still run the world...still too many of them see women as less than them....they don't want us to have any power...still won't accept a woman as POTUS ..because they are afraid we'll do to them what they have done to us, still won't pay us the same wages...your feelings are valid. You sure don't have to hate men...but you DO have to hate their entitled, unevolved behaviors. You won't find too many women who behave the way you describe...weak and needing a man...they do still exist...most of them voted for trump I believe...women are the strongest in every species...they do all the work raising their young. Men in most societies...just look around the world at how women are treated...are obstructionists to women. Religion plays a huge part in the way the world treats women. If men had not been able to beat us into submission legally...they would not have all this power. It is not balanced yet but....soon

PiceousPanda · 26-30, F

@Fernie: If you so realize it was actually both men and women in support of the role of women and it does make sense for the time in history when we weren't as advance and genuinely I feel it was coming out of the good heart of many men. Women are seen as less because they are weaker. Really that attitude needs to change. I voted for trump. Despite my distaste for most of his opinions I didn't trust hilary at all and I think a lot of people who chose trump disregarded gender. It's not always about gender and many women seem to worry about competing against. I give both genders a fair look quite honestly. Men probably still run the world because most of the world is poor. If america broke down. I'm sorry to break it to you but men would probably run it even more. It's just the sad cycle of life. People do what they need to survive and on the brick of survival. America use to have a different quality from life so I doubt many women would have the same opinion as you in a life now in luxury. It would make a civilization weaker if we worried about political correctness in the midst of struggling life. Right now women can shine but me personally I have nothing against a man shining as well. In fact I find it attractive.

Fernie · F

@PiceousPanda: you my dear child are extremely confused about the strength of women. Be a sister, not a traitor. I cannot figure out what your long winded point about men and women actually is...except it is clear that you prefer men and think they are better than women. How any self respecting woman could vote for that sexist, evil, lying, dangerous, narcissistic psychopath...I will never understand. He is a pig and he sees women as nothing but pussies for him to grab, not human beings, Haven't you been paying attention??? You need to get an education kiddo. I'm done here. Don't bother responding...I'm done.
This is how I see women who think he is worthy of their trust and vote:

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PiceousPanda · 26-30, F

@Fernie: I'm just not offended and I don't think this a sex war haha. :)
I was actually hoping the female candidate in france would win because I preferred her. It's not a gender thing. It's the fact the amount of things women have said about men and they shrug it off but when a man says something not evene to people in a private conversation. I can't hate him. I've said stuff. We all have. :)

Primnproper · 56-60, F

I don't think women have always been seen as weak..through the war years it was the women who kept the house and kids together, food on the table with the little rations they had, while also going out doing their work on farms or wherever when the men were called up...the world changed and evolved and women's roles were able to evolve with it..

bijouxbroussard · F

I think I understand what you're saying. It is very complicated. What most understand of femininity is perceived as soft, sensitive submissive and weak. It's why when people want to insult a man the worst thing they can imagine to call him is "womanish". And what it means is that the stereotype of women as a group is not admired by either gender.

TjNewton · M

Are you saying you prefer women to men ?

PiceousPanda · 26-30, F

@Lazarus: No haha. I prefer men completely!

TjNewton · M

@PiceousPanda: Im not exactly sure what you are saying though

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