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My girlfriend's mom died and she won't talk to me. I understand that she needs time alone but she's really upset and I'm worried. What should I do??

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Give her time. And tell her that. You can tell her "I'm so sorry for your loss. If there's anything I can do for you, please let me know." That is also a way of giving her all the time and space she needs to cope with her grief. Everyone griefs in a different way and some person may need more time than others, but by saying those words that's for now I think the best thing to do. She'll talk back to you when she'll feel up to it. After a while you could ask her if she's ok, and if she needs you, that she can talk with you if she needs to.
Fernie · F
Leave her alone. She'll come to you when she is ready. Send her a card saying you're there if she needs you.
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Is she young ? Then I think she wants to spend it with family but if ur a true boy friend then u would go around with some facking flowers and give u condolences really kid , maybe it time to take a step become a man ??
Y now sugar , u don't need flowers !! U need some love , am I right
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
@Georgimy: love is all you need - John Lennon
Certainly did say and so did Sufi rumour Jalani "well done ! Great minds think alike
lily88mercy · 26-30, F
@Cameron
I agree with Fernie. Don't rush her with texts either about how upset and worried you are. While she's grieving for her mom she doesn't need the extra burden of caring for your emotional needs...it will only put her off. A nice card of condolence and maybe some flowers is enough for now.
karenof4 · 36-40, F
Just try and make sure nothing can stress her out and give her some time
Goralski · 51-55, M
Give her some space
coary987 · M
Give her space biddy but tell her you are there for her when she needs you.
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
Kill her Dad and siblings. Then she'll have to talk to you

 
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