I need your advice

I try to put other people's happiness before mine. I have a friend who fell in love with me. Now texting him just makes me really uncomfortable just knowing that. I told him that I had to go and blocked him from messaging me.

So the question is, should I have just continued being his friend or was it best that I blocked him?

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Before you blocked him, you should have told him the truth. Being suddenly blocked or stonewalled is a bad experience, like having the rejection but having no idea why it happened. Just a couple of lines would've done it; "This is not right for me and it's making me uncomfortable. I don't care about this as much as you do and it wouldn't be right to continue and allow you to think otherwise."