I want to ask my mom about what should I do. She's really good at making advice. But I don't wan't her to know my bf brokeup with me.

You said he dumped you, wanted you back but doesn't want to talk in person. There's no need for additional advice, he's wasting your time

Ask for advice for a “friend“? Maybe that works

You'll feel better if you just tell the truth.

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