Idk what to do rn

im 15, in year 10, but i havent attended a single day, (and my attendance has been bad since 2020, year 7) 2 days ago i went on a tour for a school im interested in, but idk how i feel about it, at my old school, to fit in you essentially just had to be outgoing, but at the new one, it makes you focus more on the learning than the socialising, but on the tour the girl giving the tour goes "you have to put your phone here for the whole day" and that only made me think about the fact i dont have a phone, so now im convinced that since i dont have one thing that everyone else has, theyll instantly hate me?? Idk whats wrong w my brain.. its like its searching for something to hate abt myself. Anyway, i just know that soon, im gonna have to choose. Go back to my old school wit my "friends", go to the new school and have a completely fresh start, or start looking for work, and i just wanna see if anyone has been in a similar situation and can give me some advice?? (If u wanna know more just lmk pls)

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MilayaDetka161 · 16-17, F

Hey fellow girl/guy/alien :)/person

I understand what you going through I had to move around a lot in my childhood always in different schools. I didn’t fit in all the time and took me a long time to get accepted. I’m in college now (16-17). You see being a teenager ofc comes with a lot of personal bagadge and insecurities. We all want to be accepted but looking back it really is not worth it as most children are just plain cruel to one another. The way I did it was to focus on my studies do really well and get out, it pays off you will move on and meet new friends. One of the biggest things you gotta realise is that school isn’t everything in life but right now getting GSCEs or a Diploma is important for a basic job. You are lucky you are still young it means you have a chance to start at a new school and make new connections to move forward in life with job or a career. If I were you I would choose new school. You need to overcome this obstacle of moving otherwise you will fail later in life you need to open to challenges to succeed in anything. If I did it, you can do it too but I know it’s harder as you don’t attend. Why don’t you speak to your teachers and take private after school classes with them on something you don’t get or need to learn or get student support?? When going into that new school tell them about your situation so they can get you extra help!! I skipped one and a half year of secondary as a result of learning English (foreigner) and still passed.

Anyway,
Dear Person don’t worry I’m 100% it will work out but times will be tough

❤️❤️❤️

I wish you good luck!!

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