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So im an exchange student and have been in France for 7 months and supposed to stay til June. I got lucky and have an amazing family it's just the school situation. Everyone doesn't talk to me kinda like I'm not there they know I speak French now . I feel so excluded and lonely that it's become normal and when I saw my sisters last week I just broke and told them everything. Now she told my mum and she suggested I go home which is what I want to do but I feel guilty leaving the family when they planned shit for me to do with them. I just regret saying anything but you know when people keep asking what's wrong I always break . Should I leave or stay

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froggtongue · M

That's really a rough call to make. Your family sounds great, like they really want to take care of you and make sure you're alright. If staying there would make you continue to feel bad, they don't want that.
But try something different. While in school, worry not about others. Be kind if anybody wants to talk to you, but try to focus more on school work or something. Then after school, join some school clubs or go to fun places around town. Even just while trying to shop, try to strike up some conversations with the employees or others. In any case, shake up your routine. Give it another week or two and see how you feel about it then.