Advice please?

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So im an exchange student and have been in France for 7 months and supposed to stay til June. I got lucky and have an amazing family it's just the school situation. Everyone doesn't talk to me kinda like I'm not there they know I speak French now . I feel so excluded and lonely that it's become normal and when I saw my sisters last week I just broke and told them everything. Now she told my mum and she suggested I go home which is what I want to do but I feel guilty leaving the family when they planned shit for me to do with them. I just regret saying anything but you know when people keep asking what's wrong I always break . Should I leave or stay

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Higher education is not something we do to make friends, we get into it and stay because we want the knowledge and/or the chance at a better job. It does hurt when no one talks to you though, especially if you have a specific class that you need to sit in every time to the point where you know everyone. Personally, I just cherry pick lessons I need to attend to do well at school, the rest I do from home.

Clodagh · 18-21, F

@MartinTheFirst the teachers pretend I'm not there my education is nothing to them then I spent 10 hours a day alone

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Clodagh I spend 16 (24 really) hours a day alone, mostly, so...

Clodagh · 18-21, F

@MartinTheFirst I'm just fucking miserable there why would I stay if people say and do shit that fucking makes you feel like horseshit you know

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Clodagh ive told you why, but now why are you even asking? youve already made up your mind

Clodagh · 18-21, F

@MartinTheFirst I don't want anyone to be disappointed in me

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Clodagh you're just bullshitting