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Mamapolo2016 · F
My bff experienced the same irl.
Three months seeing each other almost daily, all perfectly fine. Then he just stopped texting, calling, dropping by and would not respond to her requests to know why.
It drove her nuts and she's not one to let something drop. Dogged, determined. She staked out his favorite coffee shop and confronted him there. His response was to drop his head on the table and moan, "Leave me alone."
A few days later she went to his place and literally followed him around the yard while he mowed the grass on his riding mower. He still wouldn't answer her.
About a month later, he died of a heart attack at that same restaurant table.
So she'll never know.
The truth is it doesn't matter. If he won't talk, he won't talk and that makes him careless and negligent of the feelings of the woman he says he cares about. Who wants a guy like that?
Three months seeing each other almost daily, all perfectly fine. Then he just stopped texting, calling, dropping by and would not respond to her requests to know why.
It drove her nuts and she's not one to let something drop. Dogged, determined. She staked out his favorite coffee shop and confronted him there. His response was to drop his head on the table and moan, "Leave me alone."
A few days later she went to his place and literally followed him around the yard while he mowed the grass on his riding mower. He still wouldn't answer her.
About a month later, he died of a heart attack at that same restaurant table.
So she'll never know.
The truth is it doesn't matter. If he won't talk, he won't talk and that makes him careless and negligent of the feelings of the woman he says he cares about. Who wants a guy like that?
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Mamapolo2016 · F
@summerlove I have to say, I'm afraid hurtfully, that under the veneer he IS cold and cruel.
You don't care about him, you care about the man you thought he was.
I know it hurts, but don't throw good time after bad.
Go find a man who IS who you thought this flibbertigibbet was.
You don't care about him, you care about the man you thought he was.
I know it hurts, but don't throw good time after bad.
Go find a man who IS who you thought this flibbertigibbet was.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 yeah I am grieving over the man I thought he was. It’s crazy though because he was always so kind to me, was never rude to me, never talked about other women. He told me how beautiful he thought I was then the switch in his behaviour happened. A truly decent person though would not have treated me like that especially when I didn’t do anything to him. He showed me who he truly is.
Mamapolo2016 · F
@summerlove Yes, he did. As Maya Angelou famously said, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
BeJeweled · F
It sounds like he met someone else unfortunately.
My best advice is stop thinking about him and move on. Hard I know, but being busy doing other things will help.
My best advice is stop thinking about him and move on. Hard I know, but being busy doing other things will help.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@BeJeweled He met someone else? That would mean he cheated then since we were in a relationship.
Spoiledbrat · F
Did you sleep with him?
summerlove · 31-35, F
@Spoiledbrat No I didn’t
Spoiledbrat · F
Maybe he met someone else or maybe his focus has changed. @summerlove
WhateverWorks · 36-40
How long did you guys dare?
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
deadgerbil · 22-25
@SkeetSkeet on a scale of one to ten how scandalous am I
SW-User
@SkeetSkeet perfectly fucked up 🤔
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@deadgerbil you are a Saint ✝️