Dream related

Okay, so im just going to put this out there, and would love opinions.
Around 5days or so ago, I had a dream of a guy I use to be somewhat friends with. I hadnt seen or even really thought of him in over two years.
The dream was really random, and was about him trying to get closer to me.
Ever since I woke up that day, I can't get him off my mind, and its actually really bugging me.
Any thoughts, or similar experiences on this? I am clueless.
Thank you for any thoughts :)

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ManicMicah · 26-30, M

It could be some feelings you have deep inside for that person, or it could in fact just be a random dream and nothing more. Not all dreams have some special meaning behind them. It takes the people you know and puts them into some situation that plays inside your head. If you didn't have that dream about that guy, it could have been any other person taking his place.

A few times I've had a dream involving people that I knew, some extremely questionable. I had a dream I was making out with one of my best female friends. But I'm gay, so the dream confused me when I woke up. But I realized, it was nothing. I have no romantic or sexual attraction to her so the dream was just that: a dream.

Don't think too much about this. Unless you have the similar dream multiple times, it probably doesn't mean much. You were just remembering someone you haven't seen in years. Sometimes I'll have dreams about a close friend or a family member or something else I haven't seen in over a decade. But it never really means much. The brain is weird that way.

ItsAllAboutLove · F

I believe such a dream comes from subconscious desire. perhaps not about that man in specific, but maybe you just desire to be physically close to a man. Our subconscious mind can be full with feelings and emotions we're not always aware of when we are awake, so in dreams they can come to the surface.

But then the question, for yourself to answer, would still be: 'Would you want him to be close to you?' Perhaps you somehow miss him in your life? Then this dream is a memory or the feeling of missing to have someone close, but then I'd come back to the subconscious desire. I really think that's what it is. I don't think you 'should' get in touch with him again like it's 'fate' because dreams are simply what we feel and experience and all our emotions locked up inside.

ItsAllAboutLove · F

Unless if you want to contact him, then you must do what you feel the most comfortable and ready about doing :)

VAMPFREAKZ69 · 46-50, M

It could be suppressed feelings you might have him that you might not know of or never had a chance to tell him about. You should just try and talk to him and let him know how you feel that's all you can do

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