i want to change myself.. i dont know how to but i dont like the way i m.
i wish someone could just guide me.. i feel like a looser right now ;(
26-30, M
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TwiddlerofThumbs · F
Why do you feel like a loser?
What about you would you change?
And looking at your 'pic'. You're right. Being hurt rarely makes a person stronger when the pain wont let up. it only goes on to destroy who you are.
But you still have a decision to make. Do you want to be that person? you don't seem to care to be.
So be someone else. Who? I don't know.. but you need a healthy direction.
Life is complicated and don't fool yourself into thinking anyone has it any easier. They don't. Their issues are only different ones.
One thing to change your state of mind, is to stay away from other depressed people. They are often very welcoming but will drag you down with them. They will be a bad influence and lead you away from being something else you want to be.
Have you seen a counselor? Someone you can talk to?
What about you would you change?
And looking at your 'pic'. You're right. Being hurt rarely makes a person stronger when the pain wont let up. it only goes on to destroy who you are.
But you still have a decision to make. Do you want to be that person? you don't seem to care to be.
So be someone else. Who? I don't know.. but you need a healthy direction.
Life is complicated and don't fool yourself into thinking anyone has it any easier. They don't. Their issues are only different ones.
One thing to change your state of mind, is to stay away from other depressed people. They are often very welcoming but will drag you down with them. They will be a bad influence and lead you away from being something else you want to be.
Have you seen a counselor? Someone you can talk to?
mannansingh · 26-30, M
things you said are quite encouraging but still its very hard