We did care for my great grandmother with no real issue, even though her dementia. Even on her deathbed. Where he told her, as she lay dying, that he regretted marrying her and that she was a horrible mother. Etc etc. He is not our blood. He did not raise any of us. He is my great grandfather, he was her husband. His weekly emergency room visits and multiple day hospital stays have drained us of everything we have. To find out there was nothing wrong with him at all. We are still trying to raise up a 13 and 5 year old. His throwing tantrums because he can't walk on his own? Screaming that he's going to kill us, himself, destroys our things? I'm sorry. If you were in the same position, you'd get it. Theres so much more he's done too. Including trying to cut my fathers mom with a kitchen knife. There isn't anything wrong with his brain medically speaking. He's just an ass. And we can't do it anymore in terms of finances and the children in the home. Not to mention that I, a 21 year old, am housebound because he requires 24 hour care. I have been since i was 18. Consider the mental well being of the people giving him everything they have. To be met with death threats and tantrums that are worse that the actual 5 year old. I don't plan on children, I expect I'll either end up in my sisters care or in a home. Whatever, but I'll never be how he is if I can help it. Not ever.
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