How did you manage to stop hating your looks and just living with and loving yourself?

No, I don't wanna discuss if I should stop hating my looks or if I have a "right" to worry about my looks.
Fact is, I sometimes hate the way I look and that keeps me from living life to the fullest. I have the impression that ppl who are not so concerned are much more relaxed and easy going. Going with the flow. How do I get there?

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LynnSW68 · 51-55, F

Unless a woman is very beautiful then I think it's pretty normal to worry about how we look, but I bet even they have some insecurities. Then again I have known many who are not what you would describe as good looking who are abundantly confident so I suppose it all depends on outlook.