How did you manage to stop hating your looks and just living with and loving yourself?

No, I don't wanna discuss if I should stop hating my looks or if I have a "right" to worry about my looks.
Fact is, I sometimes hate the way I look and that keeps me from living life to the fullest. I have the impression that ppl who are not so concerned are much more relaxed and easy going. Going with the flow. How do I get there?

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icyreb · M

the problem isn't you..[[mostly] its the way society brainwashes people.. they tell us what is beautiful, and if you don't look that way, they sell you their products to help you become that way...

JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M

This is true but we still have the choice whether to accept it or not and that's where ppl stop. They accept what they do not agree with which then disempowers them to change it. This is where we are at but slowly the masses are waking up to this to eventually create change for the better. If you want things to change then you must oppose what you want changing!

icyreb · M

our choices are hindered by what society says.. either you become one with them..or are an outcast..