Everyone else in my life is so busy with their own lives to the point that they've practically tuned me out...

That said, what should I do with myself until they are ready to pay attention to me? Drown in my own personal affairs and circumstances too?

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SirenCalledLuce · F

This sounds a little needy. Sure, maybe you should move on too and focus on what’s going on in your own life.

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SirenCalledLuce · F

@SubZeroSlays808 That’s what happens. People drift away and new ones take their places.

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@SirenCalledLuce Well, if they are drifting away from me, I hope and pray God replaces them soon, because this is the first time I've had a crew of genuinely good-hearted folks to hang out with. It would be a giant heartbreak if they turned out to be false allies.

SirenCalledLuce · F

@SubZeroSlays808 It doesn’t make them false. We are all in a constant state of flux. It can be hard but there will be others.

BrewCityBarfly · M

Meetup can actually help, at least it can get you out and about with people who share some kind of interest or activity.

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@BrewCityBarfly Tried that app once and the events within diving distance didn't really interest me.

Maybe I could try it again though, since that was awhile ago.

BrewCityBarfly · M

@SubZeroSlays808 The only issue I've had is that some of them have pretty well defined cliques. Set expectations low, might take time to make friends.

maxeen · 61-69, F

some people's lives and minds are on what they're doing.
ASK NOT ..what they can do for you...
ASK WHAT
you can do for them...mentality
ha!

SW-User

Give them the cold shoulder subzero

SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M

@SW-User I wish I could afford to, but these people are the only decent friends I have at the moment.

SW-User

Not drown, but live your life

Dancingxghost · 36-40, M

well that's living life. isn't it.

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