HELP

I just transferred to a high school this year with no one I know. I meet someone and became friends with her. She really like this girl and they became BFFs but then recently her BFF stats to hang out with me more and now my friend's being mean to me.... what should I do? and we do include her she doesn't want me to play with her BFF

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jennypenny · 70-79, F

Sadly some people are possessive of their friends and jealous when others come along. I'd just try to rub along with both of them and see if it works out

LovelyGorilla · 26-30, F

Your "friend" sound like a jealous bitch. Which she probably is.but if u still wanna be friends with her even tho she's being mean then try and make all three of you hang out together more.

Hoppee · F

we do include her she doesn't want me to play with her BFF.

KittyKat · 26-30, F

just ditch both of them

SW-User

why don't u all hang out together

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LovelyGorilla · 26-30, F

Makes sense now if she's 12🙄 tell her that u don't wanna "steal" her friend and that you can all "play" together. Also tell her this BFF you're talking about can decide who she wants to play with on her own . she ain't no toy . she plays with whoever tf she wants to play with. And tell your friend to grow up its about time

Hoppee · F

@Resilience: yeah but I don't want to make anyone sad. She's used to being bossy and her parents listen to her completely. I just have a feeling that she'll do something bad if I contiue to play with her BFF

Hoppee · F

@LovelyGorilla: but I don't want to make her or her BFF sad. I f I stop playing with her BFF her BFF will be sad and if I continue to play with her BFF she'll be sad.

yellowstone

Maybe try to cultivate new friendships and limit the time you spend with these two girls. Oftentimes with friends, a third person feels jealous or left out.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

When you are pushed into choosing between 2 people, pick the one who puts you under the least pressure.

Hoppee · F

don't care about me that much but they were very good friends... If I choose my friend then Amy will not be happy and will not be good friends with my friend anymore. But if I choose Amy my friend will not be happy. no one will be happy if I choose but if I play with both of them Amy will not like my friend and my friend will not like me and if I ignore them I feel like it's not a solution.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

They are putting you in a position where you have to choose. Or you can continue trying to live with the situation and taking it one day at a time. Maybe if you wait it out, one or both of them will grow up and stop giving the other one the snake eye.

UltraViolet · 22-25, F

Confront her about it- asking her if she has feelings for that girl.

Hoppee · F

doesn't work and might create more drama

UltraViolet · 22-25, F

@CherryFlower: Then choose between them. One seems nicer.

Hoppee · F

@UltraViolet: don't want to though no other choice?

bhatjc · 46-50, M

are you sure those two are not lovers.

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

@CherryFlower: ok but why is the other girl so jealous.

Hoppee · F

@bhatjc: we're only 12/13..... and some people just get jealous easily.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@CherryFlower: only time will tell,you have school ahead of you

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