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Do you ever feel like somebody's love for you is fake?

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Reject · 26-30, M Best Comment
Who am I to question anyone's love? I will say some people's love is more valuable than other's though, depending on their actions.
SW-User
@Reject who are you??? The person RECEIVING it 😂
That's the biggest component
Reject · 26-30, M
@SW-User I will not tell people how they feel. That's wrong to me. If they say they love me, then I won't doubt it.
MellyMel22 · F
@Reject [i][c=#BF0080]Words are never enough to prove that they mean it 🙁 [/c][/i]
beastmaster · 46-50, M
@MellyMel22 True🦋
Reject · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 Of course. This is why I said some love is more valuable depending on actions, but it's hardly right to decide how someone feels for them, as if you're them.
MellyMel22 · F
@Reject [i][c=#BF0080]I understand what you’re saying, but some people throw those 3 words around to get what they want or don’t realize it’s just a temporary feeling. [/c][/i]
Reject · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 Then those people will experience the joy of knowing how little their love is worth to me. If they throw that word around loosely, then the next time they do something suggesting otherwise, I'll take care to let them know that's what their love means and that's why I don't much care for it. It's still love though, I'll give them that, their sad version of it.
SW-User
[quote] I will not tell people how they feel. That's wrong to me. If they say they love me, then I won't doubt it [/quote]

I love this and wish everyone was like this
MellyMel22 · F
@SW-User [i][c=#BF0080]Some people need to be told, 2xs in my life I can I was right about that. [/c][/i]
MellyMel22 · F
@Reject [i][c=#BF0080]Unfortunately if they didn’t care to consider feelings before, they prob won’t care to let go. But they def wouldn’t deserve you.. In the end it can still be very hurtful. [/c][/i]
Reject · 26-30, M
@SW-User Thanks Pirate! cx We all love differently after all, and it's not right to measure people by your own standards. I say let them love however they wish and you can decide what that means to you, but don't invalidate them.

@MellyMel22 They only hurt me in whatever ways I allow them to. That is not permission I easily grant to just anybody, even if they use that word, I need to see just how much they value it before I invest myself.