What do I do about my ex?

So I have a bf and all and I love him to death. The problem is my ex. I still have these overwhelming feelings for him that I can't seem to put away no matter how hard I try. He was my first real love. I keep thinking about him and today he kissed me and I don't know what to do about it. I feel like the world's most terrible gf ever bc I liked it and I kissed him back. I still haven't told my bf. I'm scared that if I do, he will leave me. What do I do?

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Mary3419 · 26-30, F

I suggest you think about who you love the most, and consider if it's just infatuation you feel for your ex, Consider why you left in the first place also. It could just be your ex want's you back for something else or for just the feeling and you may just end the same way as last time, feeling heartbroken or you leaving him.

So it's more your decision here. Your boyfriend you are with now may really love you do think if you love them back and avoid your ex in any loving way other than being a friend or acquaintance or someone you knew then; if you want to stay loyal to your boyfriend who you are in a relationship in with currently.

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Mary3419 · 26-30, F

@firewolfgirl Okay that reminds me of one of my old ex's. believe me that ex of yours is doing it for the thrill and fun of it I suggest you avoid that guy you deserve better. You should stay with your current boyfriend if you feel happier with him. Do not let someone keep tugging at your heartstrings for the fun of it all the time. Stay with someone who truly loves you, avoid your ex, and next time he tries to kiss you or anything similar stop him before it. You need to first stop the acts before you can move on otherwise you'll always feel like you love him and miss him when you are already in a happy and present relationship.

firewolfgirl · 18-21, F

@Mary3419 okay. thank you so much for this. i have been having a hard time pondering over this and it has been bugging me. i will take your advice and hope it works. again thank you so much

Mary3419 · 26-30, F

@firewolfgirl Anytime! I been having my own issues in love! But mine deals with a love triangle pff I didn'teven want to be a part of I have no interest in the guy who likes me pff. I wish you all the luck!

Poofy

Will you still have feelings for your ex when you date your best friend?

firewolfgirl · 18-21, F

@Poofy no

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