Would you go for a really hot person with a dull personality or an unattractive person with an okay personality?

I'm stuck
One gives me attention from people /makes me popular but is lacking in interesting personality
The other is insecure but he really tries to talk
What would you do?

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ContributorJo · 51-55, M

Find number 3.

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@ContributorJo I feel that they will never come

ContributorJo · 51-55, M

Then they probably won't. You need to believe that they will because you are worth being around. I'm going to guess you suffer from poor self esteem?

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@ContributorJo Not at all actually. I believe I'm special and am worthy of someones attention. Just tired of waiting

ContributorJo · 51-55, M

Don't be. At least if you need some companionship then just let them know you want to keep things casual and you don't want a committed relationship. Date them both and enjoy each for what they bring.
You don't think so now but you are very young yet with plenty of time to find the right relationship.

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@ContributorJo Great contribution I'll take that advice