Would you go for a really hot person with a dull personality or an unattractive person with an okay personality?

I'm stuck
One gives me attention from people /makes me popular but is lacking in interesting personality
The other is insecure but he really tries to talk
What would you do?

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gmatthewb · 51-55, M

Personality wins out over the long term. Kind of a bonus with dating someone who isn't very attractive, you don't have to worry about others trying to steel them away. Also, good looks fade over time, but an okay personality can mature and become a truly beautiful thing over time. I will always take inner beauty over exterior beauty.

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@gmatthewb but idk I don't wanna fix him or be his hero

gmatthewb · 51-55, M

@RaemaSnr Then pass on both and wait for someone better. You're young, you have so much time ahead of you. If you want a relationship to last the rest of your life, don't rush into it. Take your time and find the person who is right for you. They don't have to be perfect.