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Would you go for a really hot person with a dull personality or an unattractive person with an okay personality?

I'm stuck
One gives me attention from people /makes me popular but is lacking in interesting personality
The other is insecure but he really tries to talk
What would you do?
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SW-User
I would remain single.
And wait for one that makes my heart beat and my mind soar.
LyricalOne · F
@SW-User Ugh, you’re so wise!
SW-User
@LyricalOne I know, its so ugh! 🤣
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User But I don't wanna be alooone
SW-User
@RaemaSnr Why? What is so bad about being alone?
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend or a relationship, its lonesome
LyricalOne · F
@RaemaSnr Learning how to be alone is one of the best things you can do to prepare yourself to be in a healthy relationship. Men appreciate women who know how to be independent!
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@LyricalOne I have learnt though, I'm pretty independent. Just want to be independent with someone to be intimate with
Casheyane · F
@RaemaSnr It won't do the relationship any good if that's the only reason you want to be part of it.
SW-User
@RaemaSnr Listen to these ladies. Both are wise.

The thing with settling in a relationship is that you're probably doing yourself the biggest injustice. Not to mention being unfair on him.
LyricalOne · F
@RaemaSnr If you’re truly independent, then know your worth and don’t settle for someone just to have a body next to you. That’ll make you even lonelier.
LyricalOne · F
@SW-User That’s right. I’ve been around the track a few times. Like an old horse.
Casheyane · F
@LyricalOne Well said ;)
LyricalOne · F
@Casheyane Danke.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@Casheyane Aaah I see
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@SW-User I'm taking advice don't worry, just explaining my feelings
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@LyricalOne I don't want to settle true
SW-User
@RaemaSnr I understand. :)
LyricalOne · F
@RaemaSnr Remember your worth young lady. Get out in the stream of life, find things you enjoy doing and the right man, a like minded man who is worthy of you, will come along.
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
@LyricalOne 😊thx