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Should I End this Friendship/Relationship?

I seem to have more negative than positive to say about him. We have been on & off. We aren't too similar, besides our personalities. We get along, yet lately his essence and words really have been irritating me and annoying me. He does not think negatively of who I am and is not too emotional nor clingy - which I absolutely despise.
But he never remembers anything I say or tell him, especially important things. I am not one to talk much about myself nor my life, though I do and he never remembers ? Maybe a few things, but not the important things & regardless that is disrespectful and offensive :)
He isn't one to be intellectual or very much educated while I am, 3. not creative and doesn't have much of a creative mindset nor an excited demeanor of the little things in life. He HATES old music, movies, etc. Meanwhile that is what I live for. ((he considers anything before 2017 as "old")). No appreciation for what true art is.
He like has no depth at all, meanwhile I do... and it's really irritating.

What is important to me is not important to him.

I guess I should just stop talking to him? If he really annoys me to the max. level of things and lacks a lot of what I am. It's just if I do, I will feel bad and will probably miss him, like I always so, but each time when I talk to him again, I feel so irritated and annoyed. I feel like such a complex person, eccentric and hard to get along with. And he is just the "closest" to bearable, which isn't good.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F Best Comment
Sounds like you are just not a match. Let this one fade away.

Its not like anyone ever follows advice anyway.. Just keep being annoyed else you'll miss him
LyricalOne · F
You may miss him a little but it’ll pass. Lots of other people in the world.
To cut it short will you still want him in six months. I think not. Move along

 
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