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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
You can't really help your feelings. You may have good reason to feel the way you do. But, although you can't control your feelings, you can mentally talk back to these feelings, develop a sense of humor about them, and decide not to allow such unhappy thoughts to control any part of your decision making process. Those are the three things you can do.