What are your passions? Netflix? Turn the TV off. Work with your hands. Do anything creative, something you can work a little on every day, and see the results as they manifest. Keep a journal and your penmanship will improve, as well as your ability to release thoughts. Read books. Spend time in nature. We're not meant to be hooked to electronics all the time; this is the first generation in history that was raised on electronics, and we're suffering from higher numbers of loneliness and depression. It's unnatural. So pretty much anything that will allow you to be present in the present environment will help you develop.
Anyway, sites like SW do serve a purpose. We found each other here, somehow, in this virtual space.