Need good ideas for responding to my husband cheating

I know it happens all the time. And now it has happened to me. I want my response to be smart and I want my response to put me in a good position for Karma to take it's course. Also to not negatively affect my potential divorce settlement...

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SW-User

If you're already in the throws of a divorce... what difference does it make? Record what you collected about the cheating and saving it for the negotiations.

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

@SW-User what difference does it make? you get up every morning and decide what you are going to do. I think it makes a difference what you decide to do...…... am I on the right website????

SW-User

@eatpraylove I must be confused. You were happily married. He cheated. Now you're pondering divorce but you still want to respond to him?

My suggestion would be to hold him hostage with it. He probably doesn't want his friends and family to know. Make him pay.

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

yes. I want him to pay for this.

SW-User

Is his mother still alive and does she like you?

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

@SW-User yes