its hurts when you are trying to convey your feeling about how messed up you are and the person in front starts commenting and comparing things themselves
people use themselves as a reference in an attempt to understand others...try not to take offence.
SW-User
It's annoying sometimes, specialy when you want advice from people and not a venting party. But look at the silver lining- reading what other people go through can make you learn something from their experiences too.