Should I just ignore my friend when...

I have a really good friend that I am very close to and makes me very happy. When he's in a good

mood, he just makes my world a little brighter XD But when he's upset or just unhappy in general

(a little more than often), he takes his sorrow/anger out all on me or someone. I'd ask whats wrong &

check up on him but he takes it as an offense and just everything an offense. He's been like this

for 2 days now. He won't let me in, should i just wait till he gets better?

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Starz93 · F

Wait until he gets better , since you know this is not really how he is. He however, needs to find ways to deal with his sadness and anger .. and taking it out on you and his close friends/family isn't a good thing and it might lead him towards losing you completely if he doesn't learn how to control himself. But hey, best friends stick beside one another through thick and thin regardless of each other's flaws. But if it gets toxic and he always blames you or takes his frustration out on you, just talk to him about it when he is calm and maybe sort it out and see his thoughts.

SW-User

wait it out. but keep in touch lol

Jeffie · 46-50, M

Waiting sounds like a good idea:)

river52 · 70-79, M

yep....make him miss you...that will turn his thoughts around

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