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How can you be genuinely kind if you are not?

Is it really something that can be actively changed?
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SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I can only really state what's in my opinion but if you are not kind to begin with then that's just who you are. I understand.

I don't really know what to say to make it feel genuine but the thing that helps me when I don't know how to connect and often I don't is just to look at things from their perspective.... when I really want to understand anyways.

It may not make you "genuine" but it could help to know what their feeling. Generic advice but that's the only way I can think of to get a genuine feel.
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
I have understood them, that is what I do as well. I don't "feel" it, like you said.