How can you be genuinely kind if you are not?

Is it really something that can be actively changed?

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Rutterman · 46-50, M

People can change if they're highly motivated to do so and are willing to work at it. I believe this applies to a desire to be kinder as much as anything else.

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

But how? I can pretend this stuff, I'm quite good at it, been doing it for awhile so the practice method is out the window.

Rutterman · 46-50, M

@Jackaloftheazuresand You have to really want to change. There should be a difference in your behavior over time if your desire to change is strong enough.

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

How does one get more desire then?

Rutterman · 46-50, M

@Jackaloftheazuresand That's something that develops on its own. As far as I know, there's not a way to make it happen.