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I feel left out by my friends?

So basically the situation is that lately I've been busy with a lot of different stuff but it seems like my friends have all the time in the world. Normally I'd still be happy for them and stuff but idk, when I hear about all the fun they're having and the different things they do I just feel jealous and left out. I know I shouldn't feel this way and I definitely don't want to feel this way but I do. I still get to do fun stuff sometimes but it's usually without them. Usually the best solution in these situations is to just the other person/persons know how you feel, but I don't want to come across as insecure or anything. I just wish I didn't feel so down.
SW-User
I was in the reverse many times - I had all the time in the world, they were all busy. You end up figuring out the "new normal" and going from there. We all have moments of ultra-busy, but they are temporary. Your close friends will understand.
HypnoChode · 46-50, M
If they really are friends, you should be able to have an open, honest conversation about it with them.
NoodleJuice · 31-35, F
@HypnoChode I could have that conversation with them and they'd understand, but it's really not the one I want to have
Welcome to grown up land ;) We all go through that transition
NoodleJuice · 31-35, F
@Byebyebye123 haha thanks, it's definitely not as fun as I thought it'd be
@NoodleJuice It never is!! Sucks being the responsible one .. lol
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
what kind of things are taking your time now?
NoodleJuice · 31-35, F
@Newandimproved mostly my two jobs, and my fiancé
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
@NoodleJuice yikes! If I were that busy I wouldn't even remember I HAD friends :)
NoodleJuice · 31-35, F
@Newandimproved lol I'm glad I do
Myself11 · 61-69, M
If they are friends they will be there no matter what

 
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