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Is my relationship worth saving?

So lately my boyfriend had been very distant and he will go days without talking to me. On social media he leaves me on open and it is killing me. He says that it is because he is under stress and I get that because his mom is in the hospital but we havve been together for so long that I expected him to talk to me about his problems not push me away or even ignore me because of them. I guess all I want to know is if the relationship is worth saving. I really love him but this is putting so much stress on me and I've been crying every night. Is love enough or should I just let him go?
Llyn050217 · 18-21, F
Thanks for all the advice but he just ended it over text so I think I'm just going to cry myself to sleep
shakenama · M
@Llyn050217 Damm... I'm sorry...
@Llyn050217 at least you have us
His mother is in the hospital. If your mother would be in the hospital, would you want to chat with your boyfriend on a daily basis while you're undergoing a lot of stress and worries, the weight you carry on your shoulders would be so heavy that you'd feel like gosh, I don't have the energy to put in a relationship right now, I just want Mom to be better... Try to imagine this, and there you'll have your answer. ;) Just give him some time. How much? He will decide. Is your relationship still worth it? Only time will tell. You're still extremely young. relationships are so much more than chatting and falling in love.. ;)
shakenama · M
I learned the hard way you should depend on your GF or wife for support. I mean thru the good times and the bad right?

Write him a llette.... Tell him openly that you're there for him.... No matter what he's going through that you'll be there. A relationship is all bout teamwork.... communication and love.

Hoping the best for you and him 😕
Give him a few for months or month or however much time you think you can handle
Liucija · 36-40, F
If it was worth starting, it's definitely worth giving it a shot to save it.

 
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