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I Need Someone to Talk to

I'm not feeling too good right now.
It all started last night right before midnight.
My bro lives in cali and called mom screaming saying his gf called the cops on him and he won't give back her car keys so can go home. Idk if the police part was real but I overheard her saying he ripped her dress.
After almost 30 minutes of telling him over the phone just let her go home, if she doesn't wanna speak to u anymore why are u so hung up on it, and give her back her car keys, he finally did it.
I haven't heard from him all day today. Today is his bday and I'm afraid to text or call to wish him a happy bday. He has an anger problem and I'm scared he will call again screaming.
He's supposed to come visit us this coming Thurs and stay for 3 nights but with all that happened, I don't want him to come. He's violent, he's got a rage issue, and he's hit me and my mom before. I'm afraid he may do it again if he comes here.
I don't know what to do. I don't want him to think I don't love him but if I text him he may think it's an opportunity to harass us again in the middle of the night.
I did not eat. I am not happy today and it's very obvious to everyone.
I just need someone to tell me if it'll be ok or not. I'm scared.
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SW-User
What can be done so he doesn't come visit?
I wouldn't call or text him right now
He needs to cool down big time
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
@SW-User idk what can be done. But I paid for the plane tix. It was $350 and at this point, I don't care if I lose that money and he says he doesn't wanna come. I rather he not come and have thst money go down the drain than him come and make us live in fear for the next 3 or 4 days that he stays w us. He's always been the type to not care about someone ekses MO eye if he doesn't pay for it. So if he says he doesn't come, he won't care about it. Cuz he didn't pay for the tix. So he doesn't lose anything.
SW-User
@MovieMusicGal if he does end up visiting, can you leave to somewhere while he's there? Hopefully he doesn't follow through with visiting... And you said he doesn't really want to.. hopefully it all works out that way
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
Even if I were to say I'm not gonna be around, my parents will be home. And he will positively give them a hard time if not hit them. I can't let that happen so I need to stay home.
SW-User
@MovieMusicGal 😕😕😕
Then I truly hope he doesn't make the visit
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
@SW-User I hope so too. Like I said, if he says he isn't coming, I won't care if I lose the money. I rather lose the money than have him come here and make us live in fear
SW-User
@MovieMusicGal I agree..... be strong though.... I know you're stronger than you realize
MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F
I appreciate it and thank u for helping me feel a bit calmer. I really needed it.