her sister dying might delay her, but not necessarily that she cancels you completely. Actually training is one of the best ways to cope through grief... She could definitely benefit and she might realise it.

Sorry for the things not working for now. Give yourself sometime to get back though.

I'm sorry 😔. Maybe go nuclear and change everything around to complete flip. Find cheap housing and become a security officer working graves
The ultimate go-to job for no more stress.