So if your trying to get help for the ocd try getting a therapist and leave medication to a last resort. If you need help finding a wife then its a numbers game ask many women out it might be hard to find someone spesifically christian but you might end up finding someone with the values you want who is not christian. I am married I found my husband at work and I have never been asked out by a guy men just dont ask women out anymore i asked my husband out thats why we are married. He has social anxiety. A nother thing that might work is speed dating events they dont even have to be in your area because women are often willing to move for a relationship good guys are that hard to find. Or have your friends and family set you up. The biggest problem women run into is they dont get asked out so you would stand out. Sorry for the long response i was not sure what kind of answer you are looking for.