You're funny.
But you also make it sound like you don't trust the people in the site. So why bother lol.
I don't wanna give advice. You need to be kinder for that. But I can a share an experience. When you're not at your best and when the heart is heavy, best we not make a decision that would impact our relations. We aren't at our wisest then. But we can give ourselves time to relax and get a good rest, feed our tummies with warm food. When your mind is clearer and you have space to fill, that is when you ask advice. Because when our heart is heavy, no matter what we receive, we might not be able to recognize it for what it is.
Some people are kinder. Some people are meaner. But we don't know what is on one another's mind. Sometimes, harsher words may have better intent than words uttered sweetly. The value of a thing would depend on how we understand and how we would use it. To maximize one thing, we first need to understand what it is and see its potential. You can say oneself and relations can count on those.
