Are you guys worth asking for advice?

You are right. Most answers are withing ourselves, but buried within amidst chaos. So you will not be able to decide on the course of action, as you are also sulking at the moment. But a public forum like this can help you express and exert the undesirable elements out of you so you can get organized. So instead of testing the public, you could have first narrated the problem. Which could have helped you understand the problem/ situation yourself, while writing. And then you may get opinions / questions , which will help you further. You are the lawyer and judge for you, as others can't decide for you. You would get some points as Devil's advocate and God's advocate.

Your soul would be like in a washing machine, and will come out as a clean cloth.

Clearly, your heart isn't full of joy, love, and companionship when you think about this group. 🤷🏻‍♀

What does your gut tell you to do. Go with that.

Context is important.. maybe i should put some context to this post.

Sometimes being attached to friends stop you from doing things you want to do in life like wanting to achieve higher things in life but because they don’t do anything in life neither will you

Sometimes we need to meet people from outside of our circle ⭕ to broaden our horizons and reach for higher levels

Yes