Yes

You're funny.
But you also make it sound like you don't trust the people in the site. So why bother lol.

I don't wanna give advice. You need to be kinder for that. But I can a share an experience. When you're not at your best and when the heart is heavy, best we not make a decision that would impact our relations. We aren't at our wisest then. But we can give ourselves time to relax and get a good rest, feed our tummies with warm food. When your mind is clearer and you have space to fill, that is when you ask advice. Because when our heart is heavy, no matter what we receive, we might not be able to recognize it for what it is.

Some people are kinder. Some people are meaner. But we don't know what is on one another's mind. Sometimes, harsher words may have better intent than words uttered sweetly. The value of a thing would depend on how we understand and how we would use it. To maximize one thing, we first need to understand what it is and see its potential. You can say oneself and relations can count on those.

You are right. Most answers are within ourselves, but buried within amidst chaos. So you will not be able to decide on the course of action, as you are also sulking at the moment. But a public forum like this can help you express and exert the undesirable elements out of you so you can get organized. So instead of testing the public, you could have first narrated the problem. Which could have helped you understand the problem/ situation yourself, while writing. And then you may get opinions / questions , which will help you further. You are the lawyer and judge for you, as others can't decide for you. You would get some points as Devil's advocate and God's advocate.

Your soul would be like in a washing machine, and will come out as a clean cloth.

Clearly, your heart isn't full of joy, love, and companionship when you think about this group. 🤷🏻‍♀

First we need to know why you're contemplating leaving the group.

What does your gut tell you to do. Go with that.

Context is important.. maybe i should put some context to this post.

Sometimes being attached to friends stop you from doing things you want to do in life like wanting to achieve higher things in life but because they don’t do anything in life neither will you

Sometimes we need to meet people from outside of our circle ⭕ to broaden our horizons and reach for higher levels

Let your heart decide, your mind might be playing games with you.