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Can someone help me please? My boyfriend hasn’t really made any time for me.

So I’ve been dating this guy for five months and I’m in love. Some people say love is blind which is true but we’re not blind.
Things were great until two months ago when he stopped calling or stop responding to me. He hasn’t responded to me (well he did a couple times), we haven’t been on dates, I mean I asked him if he wanted to have date night this weekend and he didn’t respond until right now. He said fine but he won’t be able to pay and asked if I can. I reluctantly said sure.
I know he’s been asking me for money sometimes and promised to pay me back once he gets a job but he hasn’t.
My uncle doesn’t like him at all or my aunt. My aunt said I need to stop him before I get her and he’s using me but I’m too blind to see that.
My uncle said my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) has my back, always there for me and he and my aunt could tell he’s had a HUGE crush on me for years. Since middle school and preferred me to go out with Eddy but I keep telling them he isn’t my type and I’m not attracted to him.
Even my sister says I should end things with that pathetic loser.
My boyfriend is a sweetheart, living and kind of a jerk sometimes but he is struggling.
He’s 6’5, cute, toned and my friend, my uncle, aunt and siblings doesn’t like him. My family doesn’t either. Some are okay with them. I finally have a tall man since I’m 6’1” and my family is destroying our relationship.
Wizardry · 46-50, M
Best option would be to move on
Wizardry · 46-50, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl if he is treaty you like dirt.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Wizardry I’ll have to talk to him
Wizardry · 46-50, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl good luck
We've been through this already (by "we" I mean all of SW). The consensus (not something that happens often around here) was you've got a dud, but it doesn't seem to have made a difference
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
What do you need help with? You already posted about this 😂🤦🏾‍♂
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl so what if they hate him? Is he harming you? If not then stop caring about what other people think. Simple.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Moneyonmymind He’s charming and I’m not dumping him
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl sounds like you don’t need help 🤷🏾‍♂

 
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