How do I let a friend down without hurting them.

I recently went on holiday with a friend and had a good time now she wants to plan another long distance holiday but I want to go on my own and do my own things but I don't want to hurt her feelings. How do I break it to her I want to go on my own without upsetting her. Please help.

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Sapio · 51-55, M

Just be honest or option two, you travel to get her but do things separately. Either way, make it clear that you want to do your own activities and that some may differ from what she likes. I think she'll understand.