Any one here has divorced a narcissist ? [I Need Advice]

It’s been a difficult 22 years and then it turned into a nightmare when I finally left !
I finally realized that he classifies and a malignant narcissist
He doesn’t play by the rules
He steals
He cheats and he lies and the law doesn’t seem to know how to deal with him.
The Covid and the chaos has not been helping
I feel like I’m in war against the MOB!!!
Does anyone have any advice for me ?
I feel like I’m about to loose my mind .

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curiosi · 61-69, F

I'm sorry, I have been there. There are no rules as they make them up as they go along. The best advice I can give you is NEVER let them see that they have upset you, it's what they live for. Things got a little better for me after this incident: He took me to court non stop. I couldn't pay another attorney as I hadn't yet paid off my debt to the previous ones. So I did it alone and figured I had no choice but to accept the consequences. Amazingly I made out better on my own then I had when I paid attorney's! I swear I thought he was gonna blow a gasket right there in the courtroom. It was a really stupid case.......I had sent our child to a private school and he felt he shouldn't have to pay child support because I was "Wasting the money". Well, he never took me to court again after that!