Any one here has divorced a narcissist ? [I Need Advice]

It’s been a difficult 22 years and then it turned into a nightmare when I finally left !
I finally realized that he classifies and a malignant narcissist
He doesn’t play by the rules
He steals
He cheats and he lies and the law doesn’t seem to know how to deal with him.
The Covid and the chaos has not been helping
I feel like I’m in war against the MOB!!!
Does anyone have any advice for me ?
I feel like I’m about to loose my mind .

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KuroNeko · 41-45, F

We weren't married but we had kids together. He has never forgiven me for leaving him. He doesn't even speak to his children anymore, hes so bitter at the fact he can't control us anymore so he pretends we don't exist.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@KuroNeko
Honestly
At this point , I wouldn’t mind him leaving us alone :(
I’m sorry you had to go through this
Hope you and the kids are well🤗

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@Niloo they were left with a lot of issues from his treatment of them emotionally and mentally. Its going to be a long road until his voice is out of all of our heads I think.

Don't underestimate the damage hes doing just by being around them at this point in their lives. Get as far away as you can ❤️

Niloo · 46-50, F

@KuroNeko
I see your point .
I was raise very traditional and always believed children need both parents
Which is why I stayed as long as I did
However, the more it goes the more I realize how much damage he has caused ....

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@Niloo the last thing you want is for your kids to grow up thinking that thats how a man should behave. I already see my daughter taking emotional manipulation as love in her friendships and relationships. Its heart breaking.