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Any one here has divorced a narcissist ? [I Need Advice]

It’s been a difficult 22 years and then it turned into a nightmare when I finally left !
I finally realized that he classifies and a malignant narcissist
He doesn’t play by the rules
He steals
He cheats and he lies and the law doesn’t seem to know how to deal with him.
The Covid and the chaos has not been helping
I feel like I’m in war against the MOB!!!
Does anyone have any advice for me ?
I feel like I’m about to loose my mind .
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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I was with one for 4 years.

It was the worst time of my life. She dumped me blaming me for the distance and married another guy when she came back to talk to me(I wasn't aware she was married). Then she blames me for the distance dumping me the next day to return back 6 months later to confess because they can't be together. I block her and then she texts me telling me I'm happy to watch her suffer when she's the one who burned my life.

It was the worst 4 years of my life. I cried so much and I was drained off emotionally. I was tormented mentally. She would send me pictures of women and then accuse me of cheating. She would accuse me of cheating on my co-worker and any woman I came across(even the ones whom I saw as a sister). She was whacked up and in the end I realized that I was never loved. She just wanted me because I was of the same race as her ex but we shared different cultures. Months later she married another guy of the same race and told me that she'd sleep with every man of his culture and race.

She is a monster even though I shouldn't be saying this.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Beatbox34
That’s horrible !!!!!
I’m sorry
Juts be glad she is gone
You still have many years ahead of you to enjoy life 🤗
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Niloo Thank you. I really didn't know about narcissists then. There's more I can't reveal. But the irony is she cheated on both of her husbands to keep me as a side piece yet I was the one who cheated.

All of this took a toll on me. I felt so worthless and at one point I was planning to end it all due to the pain. I really am sorry you had to deal with someone like this for so long. Keep these people out of your life. They're emotional vampires.

I wish you the best. You sound like a strong person to have dealt with all this for a long time. I hope you get rid of that person.🤗
DianaGyana · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 so she has a race fetish? omg
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@DianaGyana I wish this were true but it's way more than a fetish.

I would say it's an obsession because she ended up blurting to me that she would go about and find every guy she could and hookup with them since her husband split up with her.
DianaGyana · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 that is not just insane but idiotic behaviour of her