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I’m 22. My dad doesn’t like me going to bars. Help!? [I Need Advice]

I’m 22. Tonight, my friend and I went to a bar to chat, have a couple of drinks, basically have girl time. We each had two drinks. We stayed by ourselves in the corner by security, for safety and social distancing, and we denied all the creeps that asked us to dance. I got home and told my parents where I’d been and my dad was passive aggressive and rude saying things like “why go to a bar to just talk?” And said “(my friend’s name) is something else. She has a boyfriend and takes you to a bar to pick up other guys.” And I told him that was absolutely untrue. And he’s all “why else would you go to a bar?” And I told him we just wanted to have a drink and unwind. He also was asking about what I had to drink and “why would I go all the way there just to talk.” I’m 22. I’m not irresponsible. I don’t leave my drink unattended, I don’t talk to people that I don’t want to, and I am aware of my surroundings. What’s so bad about me wanting to go to a club/bar!?
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SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
Probably best to move out if you can.
sabrinarose · 26-30, F
I would, but I am still in school (which my parents are paying for.) and am currently looking for a second job to help save up for somewhere since I get out of school.@SoulAsylum