I Need Advice

Yesterday something happened and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t know how to cope and I don’t fully understand what happened.

My boyfriend forced himself on me while I was drunk. I could barely form a sentence and couldn’t keep my eyes open. I knew what he was doing and I wanted him to stop. I tried to push him away a couple times and tried to verbally tell him to stop.

He doesn’t think I remember what happened. At first I thought it was a nightmare but there was blood in my underwear and I have a couple bruises on my wrists. He’s been acting like nothing happened.

I feel lost. I don’t know how to confront him.

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english · 56-60, M

ok sweetheart ,listen you have been raped ,it maybe hazy in recollection right now cos your still in a little bit of denial and prolly shock. You have to share this with someone ,you try to keep this to yourself ,you will be swallowed in guilt that isnt yours and all that time you hide it ,pretend it did nt happen it sits inside you and festers,when it reappears it will a 100 times worse . seriously if you cant tell mum and dad , find someone you trust. please get some kind of help terry