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I Need Advice

Yesterday something happened and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t know how to cope and I don’t fully understand what happened.

My boyfriend forced himself on me while I was drunk. I could barely form a sentence and couldn’t keep my eyes open. I knew what he was doing and I wanted him to stop. I tried to push him away a couple times and tried to verbally tell him to stop.

He doesn’t think I remember what happened. At first I thought it was a nightmare but there was blood in my underwear and I have a couple bruises on my wrists. He’s been acting like nothing happened.

I feel lost. I don’t know how to confront him.
Adam1985 · 36-40, M
I agree with the other people's comments...if it wasn't consensual it's rape. Do U have a friend/family member U trust that U can tell about it? If not U should tell the police ASAP. Don't confront ur boyfriend about it, it will only make matters worse; U should get out of that abusive relationship if possible.😢
english · 56-60, M
ok sweetheart ,listen you have been raped ,it maybe hazy in recollection right now cos your still in a little bit of denial and prolly shock. You have to share this with someone ,you try to keep this to yourself ,you will be swallowed in guilt that isnt yours and all that time you hide it ,pretend it did nt happen it sits inside you and festers,when it reappears it will a 100 times worse . seriously if you cant tell mum and dad , find someone you trust. please get some kind of help terry
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
You shouldn't have to. The police can though. That is awful. If I were him...I would turn myself in
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I’m so sorry this has happened. Especially from a person you were meant to be able to trust you were safe with. I encourage you to go to the hospital for a rape kit. But more so I urge you to find mental/ emotional support from a group or single professional. This will create scars you won’t be prepared for. Again I am so sorry.
calicakeface · 22-25, F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit thank you for your kind words
Hoosierxdaddy62 · 61-69, M
He's an animal, he won't turn himself in. Just call the police. Save the clothes you wearing and don't wash them. Take pictures of your bruises with your hands displayed on today's newspaper showing the headlines in the back ground and call the police
Candice · 46-50, F
Go to the cops
ajsk13 · 51-55, M
sounds like it might have been your first time , I agree with the others no is no I'd tell someone, I can't see you staying with him after that
SW-User
Call the police..go away to your home or friends..Never allow this person to touch you again
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If You did not consent then it is considered rape
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
Call the police. He raped you. Dump him
SW-User
Ofc you will ask him wtf was that
river52 · 70-79, M
what did you decide to do?
SW-User
That is rape. I'm so sorry
SW-User
U r hot but its wrong

 
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