I Need Advice

Ok..so I was married for 15yrs and was only intimate with my husband. Never thought about getting tested for stud's. Now I am out in the dating world and decided to get tested so I would know for certain if I had anything and know that I did not pass anythpassion to someone. No I never had any out breaks of any kind while married. So I got tested and everything came back beg except for herpes 1(cold sores),I haven't had a cold sores in over 20yrs. I recently met someone I like and on the first date kissed him.
Should I have told him I tested positive for this before I kissed him?
I never really thought about it since I haven't had one since I was a kid.

I had a 2nd date with the same guy and while talking the subject came up. He was upset with me cause I didn't say anything on the first date.

So please advise...was I wrong for not dating anything?

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

dunno.. it'a a huge minefield.. coldsores are very common.. not a huge deal.. re testing. remember that the test only shows you were ok at the moment you were tested.. if you have unprotected sex after the test you could be infected with something and not know until the next test... a better bet would be to be very sure of your sexual partners..
And it's good to worry not only about you passing things on.. but worry about THEM passing something on to you!!