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I Need Advice

Ok..so I was married for 15yrs and was only intimate with my husband. Never thought about getting tested for stud's. Now I am out in the dating world and decided to get tested so I would know for certain if I had anything and know that I did not pass anythpassion to someone. No I never had any out breaks of any kind while married. So I got tested and everything came back beg except for herpes 1(cold sores),I haven't had a cold sores in over 20yrs. I recently met someone I like and on the first date kissed him.
Should I have told him I tested positive for this before I kissed him?
I never really thought about it since I haven't had one since I was a kid.

I had a 2nd date with the same guy and while talking the subject came up. He was upset with me cause I didn't say anything on the first date.

So please advise...was I wrong for not dating anything?
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Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
Oh markpaul .....I am sorry if you ate having some bad dates.....which it seems by your comments you are....its not my fault if your dates think you are disposable....I never said that about my date. I am just saying there is some personnel stuff I don't think you need to disclose to a first date if you don't know whether or not either one of you is going to want to go out again...fortunately for me i got a 2nd date and even though we haven't broached the subject of sex yet....I told him.