I'm a Man Who's Attracted to Women and I Hate It!

Right now I'm at my local pool, there's a pretty girl she's wearing a bathing suit that's rather umm... showing. I can't kick it from my mind, she looks good in it, but I can't stop looking. The fact that I keep looking feels wrong, I hate it. It mostly feels wrong because I've never spoken to her, I don't know what she's like, yet I can't stop staring. I feel bad, I'm upset with myself for having impure thoughts about someone I don't even know the first thing about. What the fork is the point of being capable of being physically attracted to someone that I don't even know well enough to have an emotional attraction to. It's dumb and I hate it. I make myself sick. I hate these desires of mine. This isn't who I want to be. Please, someone tell me why, for the love of god, what purpose it serves for me to be capable of this feeling if I'm not even capable of getting a girl friend with my nonexistent social skills.

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VladG94 · 31-35, M

You're delusional to think that there's something wrong with you for being attracted to women's body.. Get over yourself, you're programmed by genuine idiots to make such a stupid and insecure post

Kouroz · 36-40, M

It’s normal to be attracted. It’s how you treat people that shows who you are.

Vivaci

I think at your age, it's ok to feel like that. You'll eventually get a girlfriend and marry. And then you won't feel so guilty anymore.

SW-User

Attraction is normal.
Might want to stop staring after the initial stare tho

SW-User

Don't be silly. Are you human? Yes! Then get over it.

EnjoyTheFeast · 22-25, F

Attraction is a normal human thing. I get why it's frustrating to feel like you can't go and talk to her, but as long as you aren't being creepy you're allowed to think people are hot

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