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Did anyone else grow up getting spanked with a switch?

I did a few times… and I still remember how much it stung. It even broke the skin. I’ll be honest—while I do believe in spanking when done thoughtfully and in love, I personally draw the line at using a switch. To me, it goes too far. There are more respectful, effective ways to discipline that don’t involve that kind of pain.

Now let me say this: I love my parents deeply. They are incredible, God-fearing people. My mom has the biggest heart you could imagine—she’s my best friend. And my dad is someone I can count on for anything, no matter what. I know they always wanted the best for us, and I hold no bitterness. I just think it’s important to reflect on how we were raised and how we want to raise our own children.

I’m genuinely curious—what was discipline like in your home growing up? Did anyone else experience the switch? And how do you feel about it now?

Let’s talk 💬👇
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No, I didn't.
I do have a memory that's like not fun lol so I know I wouldn't ever replicate that. I don't even believe in spanking either. It doesn't do anything but teach fear and suppression. Just a short term fix and lazy and damaging parenting in my opinion.
SUPERVlXEN · F
@HijabaDabbaDoo
There's been made studies on this topic and it's damaging on the child using that sort of raising them by corporal punishment. It's a lack of abilities to teach your child life by guidance and inspiration. The worst are those trying to tell one that they didn't get damaged by being raised like that. Yes you did, you think this is a right way to raise your child. Actually it's criminal behavior in several countries.
@SUPERVlXEN the ones who claim to have not been affected are usually emotionally stunted and lack the self awareness to even see how it's impacted them. Children are learning how to navigate the world, their unregulated emotions are not personal attacks so why treat them as such? It's teaching them they're too much before they even have a chance to understand themselves.
SUPERVlXEN · F
@HijabaDabbaDoo
I don't get how people can believe any spanking of a kid can bring anything positive out of the situation. I really find it upsetting and that those parents shouldn't be allowed to keep their kids. They risk damaging their own kids for life with deep traumas.