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I used the cane and I now wonder if I was right to do so.

I was a teacher from the late 1960s until the late 1980s - a fairly short career as these things go although I was quite successful - spent my last few years as a Head Teacher.

Part of my job was to use corporal punishment. I believed then that I was doing this in the best interests of the children I taught and I'd like to continue to believe that. But I find myself in a world now where we're constantly being told this was bad for children and that worries me immensely. I just can't reconcile it with what I saw as a teacher. I saw it work. I saw it turn children around. I saw it help children. I really do think that's true. But I take psychological and pedagogical research seriously and I can't reconcile it with what I saw myself.

I am honestly horrified at the idea I might have harmed these children.
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freyamartin · 41-45, F
I am someone who was on the receiving end of corporal punishment at school. While the way that we were disciplined would not be considered acceptable by most people nowadays, I genuinely hold no ill will towards those who disciplined us. In fact I believe it was done to get the best out of us and it worked.
Caned4doz · 61-69, M
@freyamartin I agree. There is too much tendency now to view the past through the eyes of today. There certainly wasn't the level of youth crime and violence back then as there is now.