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I used the cane and I now wonder if I was right to do so.

I was a teacher from the late 1960s until the late 1980s - a fairly short career as these things go although I was quite successful - spent my last few years as a Head Teacher.

Part of my job was to use corporal punishment. I believed then that I was doing this in the best interests of the children I taught and I'd like to continue to believe that. But I find myself in a world now where we're constantly being told this was bad for children and that worries me immensely. I just can't reconcile it with what I saw as a teacher. I saw it work. I saw it turn children around. I saw it help children. I really do think that's true. But I take psychological and pedagogical research seriously and I can't reconcile it with what I saw myself.

I am honestly horrified at the idea I might have harmed these children.
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Justme264 · 70-79, M
I think it might be helpful if you could enymerate the numbers of children that cp appeared to help vs the numbers that did not change at all vs the numbers whose behaviuors worsened.

Otherwse, we jst get the "fors" and "agaist" bickering on with their fixed opinions that will never change
Sharon · F
@Justme264 A lot of the things my friends and I did were solely because of the adrenaline rush from the risk of getting the cane. The thrill would have been absent if we were only risking a severe telling off so we probably wouldn't have bothered misbehaving.
Justme264 · 70-79, M
@Sharon that is a powerful sensation certainly!